Sunday, September 4, 2016

What will be your last thought before .....


What will be your last thought before you take that last breath?  Will it be, "Will I be worthy to see God's face?"  "Did I live enough of a Christ-like life?"  Who will I see up there (or, down there?!)?"  

Not everyone believes there's a heaven and a hell; but if you believe in God and consider yourself a Christian, what question will come to your mind? And if so, will you be able to answer without hesitation and with peace in your soul?

Last week at the 8:00 o'clock Mass, our pastor started the homily by asking himself how will he react when he's on his death bed seconds before leaving this earthly home--will he be out-of-this-world elated? will he feel worthy? will he have doubts (or guilt feelings)?

He asked we each consider what we will ask ourselves on that last second. 

These are deep questions that we should be asking ourselves now, so as to make our journey into the light easier--so that when our time comes, we can go acceptingly and in peace. 

What will be our last thought?  Seriously think about this. Our time may be closer than we think. Through Christ our Lord, God wants all his children to enjoy his heavenly home.  Amen!

Wednesday, August 17, 2016

Snap Krackle 'n Pop!: My Adventure on El Tren Urbano de San Juan

Snap Krackle 'n Pop!: My Adventure on El Tren Urbano de San Juan: I can visit the island of Puerto Rico a thousand times and always find something new and different to do.  On my last 'busication' (...

My Adventure on El Tren Urbano de San Juan

I can visit the island of Puerto Rico a thousand times and always find something new and different to do.  On my last 'busication' (business/vacation) I was fortunate to hop on the Tren Urbano.  Thank to my sister Kimi and her hubby Machy for making it possible!  As I've oftentimes expressed on this blog, I am a trainophile—in order words, I love trains and anything that has to do with them.






Martinez Nadal Stop




Partial view of the Milla de Oro, Hato Rey



El Tren Urbano of San Juan was a most pleasurable experience.  I was pleasantly surprised at the rare opportunity given me to ride the rails of the tiny island's metropolitan area.  I never tire of saying that "God works in mysterious ways."  Out of what could have been a sad time, God turned it around to make every day of my two-week stay practically blissful.  That day, it happened to be the San Juan Urban Train ride.  I paid for roundtrip tickets for the three of us, riding from Rio Piedras to Bayamon and back on just the departing tickets.  We never descended the train because we just wanted to experience the pure pleasure of riding the rail.  I left the tickets with my dear Kimi and Machy, for whenever the bug bites to ride the train again.

If you happen to be visiting, by all means hop a ride on El Tren Urbano—you won't be disappointed.

Snap Krackle 'n Pop!: Who loves train travel?

Snap Krackle 'n Pop!: Who loves train travel?: I love to travel by train. When we were gallivanting through Europe years ago, we went from country-to-country and fr...

Thursday, June 9, 2016

What makes you happy? Go find what it is and do it.



We are all here on borrowed time, some more than others but we all agree, no one is getting out alive. So why not make the most of our time here. 

When my best friend, partner and father of my children went home to the Lord, it was an awakening for me.  You know how you never think you're going to die and much less a beloved family member. Well it did happen with the one person I never thought would go because of his positive outlook on life, his bubbly personality, and his ability to befriend everyone, among so may other great qualities. So when Victor passed, after the initial shock of losing him I decided to relish life, to 'grab the bull by the horns'.

I started traveling more than ever, I wrote two books and a third one is about to be published so I can start working on the next one. I bought a third property out on Long Island.  I lost all fear and started enjoying life once again. 

Find out what makes you happy and make a commitment to follow it through. It doesn't matter if you're 16 or 86, there is no better time to do it than now. So go ahead.  Do you enjoy traveling, but afraid of going solo?.. Entertaining, but don't qualify as Martha Stewart? Want to get the degree you've been wanting but haven't because of lack of money. Well there are always going to be obstacles but God has given you the resources to do whatever it is you want to do. 

Don't waste another second, none of us is getting any younger and don't forget to pray to God to guide you. Everything turns out better when God is in your life. 

Tuesday, May 24, 2016

Third Space Medical

The only time I got a little relief from fibro-myalgia (FM) was when I took non-steroidal anti-inflammatory drugs (NSAIDs) and that was pretty much all the time. Yet in spite of taking ibuprofen, I was always in pain. I rarely slept, as the pain was so intense it would keep me up all night. I also worried about what the ibuprofen would do to my stomach. 

One time over dinner with friends, with tears in my eyes I was emboldened enough to tell them about my condition.  As to be expected my friends were very sympathetic but at a loss as to what to reply. After all FM is like a slow death sentence.

But lo and behold the next day I received an email from one of my friends telling me about Third Space Medical and how they had helped her with a debilitating pain she'd suffered as a result of an accident. I kindly thanked my friend for her suggestion and promised to give them a call.  

That was a Monday. I went in on Thursday and I was seen by Dr. Jonathan immediately. He took the time to listen to me, and followed up with a thorough evaluation of my condition. For some reason, I trusted Dr. Hartman when he promised to do everything in his power to get me up and moving again. 

The following week I started therapy at the TSM clinic in Ridgewood Ave. I would see Lisa the PA for muscle relaxants containing all natural drugs. After which I would follow with chiropractic manipulation by Dr. Jon, and thirdly with physical therapy in the adjacent room. 

Wow, this clinic offered everything I needed to get better and all departments within walking steps of one another. I was mostly impressed with the kind and friendly staff who did their best to make every patient feel special. Not only do they treat you as part of their family, they always do so with a kind word and a smile on their face. 

It's been two months that I've been going to TSM and I can't say enough good things about this place and their highly professional staff. I recommend this place to anyone suffering from any type of pain. In my case TSM was Godsend--I had altogether given up and resigned myself to whatever years I had left on earth in pain and misery.  I cried in silence whenever I thought about my 'death sentence'. But thank God the staff at TSM gave me a new lease on life. 

Thirty-three-year-old Dr. Jon explained that FM is basically pain which doctors haven't been able to identify its source.  Pain can stem from any number of things: celiac from gluten foods, glucose intolerance, long-term injury that hasn't been treated properly (or not treated at all), and/or a host of other triggers. TSM's aim is to get to the root of your pain through the use of all-natural muscle relaxants and up-to-the-minute chiropractic care, in conjunction with highly trained physical therapists who work closely with their patients to attain optimal health. 

I feel 75 percent better than when I first came to TSM. I'm experiencing much less pain, much more mobility and flexibility, and about a 50 percent increase in energy levels. But more importantly, I don't see my condition as a death sentence anymore. I have renewed hope that with the right diet, continued exercise, and positive outlook, I can achieve a long and healthy life.

Saturday, April 30, 2016

Who loves train travel?








I love to travel by train. When we were gallivanting through Europe years ago, we went from country-to-country and from city-to-city by train. As a matter of fact that trip was where I got the idea for my latest novel, a travel thriller titled Destination: Unknown.  This one is sure to be a crowd pleaser, so be on the lookout for its release this fall.

My love of trains and train stations started as a young girl in Hoboken.  My siblings and I would walk down to the tracks and watch as car-after-car of the Erie Lackawanna trains, went by along  the hill that separates Hoboken and Jersey City.  I would be mesmerized by the amount of cars, sometimes as many as 100 or more, as the train hooted, the engines puffed, and the clanking sound of metal over metal was heard. I guess you could say it was music to my ears.

To this day, I am still excited at the sound the trains make, especially since I live just blocks away from the railroad--the train goes past our town along the Hackensack River.  On occasion, I will hop on it into Hoboken's Path station.

I also enjoy visiting my sister in Jersey City because I get a chance to watch the Light Rail in action. Iris lives in the Heights, just three blocks away and an elevator ride down the hill to the train stop, again in Hoboken. 

Some of you may already know about my love of trains from a post of several years ago in which I talk about the Light Rail --a bittersweet time when my late Mami was visiting from Puerto Rico--another subject very dear to my heart.  I could write an entire book on Mami, but for now I will have to be content with sharing my love of locomotives.



The most fun I've had riding the rails, was five years ago when we went to Europe and visited 11 countries and over 22 cities, most of them by train. The ones that struck me the most were the old trains in the Czech Republic.  They are a trainophile's delight!  For your viewing pleasure I've posted some pictures.

My latest train adventure was just two weeks ago en el Tren Urbano de San Juan.  Through God's grace I found myself taking care of personal business/vacation on the sunny island of Puerto Rico.   Running from Rio Piedras to Bayamon with innumerable spots, this rail line is every trainophile's dream—clean, modern, and speedy.  Call me a railfan, rail or train buff.  Any way you cut it, that's me.  Cross another one off that bucket list.  Yeah!